As communication styles diversify today, it is important to distinguiosh the fine line between jokes and bullying. Jokes between friends can sometimes kead to misunderstandings or hurtful situations. So, how can we tell the difference between jokes and bullying?
Differences Between Joking and Bullying
1. Intent:
Jokes: Usually done with friendly intentions and create mutual smiles.
Bullying: Aims to humiliate or upset the other part.
2. Mutual Understanding:
Jokes: Both parts get the joke and smile.
Bullying: The victimized part is often made uncomfortable or upset.
3. Again:
Jokes: Usually on-off or done in different ways.
Bullying: It is repeated over and over and makes the victim feel bad.
4. Scope:
Jokes: It is done in small groups, in a friendly enviroment.
Bullying: Can be widespread and can embarrass the victim in public.
What to Pay Attention to When Making Jokes?
Emotions of the other part: Before making a joke, t;ake into consideration the mood and emotions of the other person.
Topic Selection: Avoid making jokes about sensetive topics.
Don't Cross the Line: Avoid pushing the boundaries and moderate the joke.
Feedback: Monitor the other part's reaction. If you sense discomfort, apologize and make amends.
Signs of Bullying and Precautions
Symptoms:
Constant ridicule of humiliation
Social exclusion
Feeling of psychological pressure
Measures:
Communicate openly and share your feelings with the other part.
Tell the situation to someone you trust.
Do not hesitate to seek professional help.
When you understand the difference between a joke and bullying, you can communicate more empathtically and respectfully. Remember, everyone has different boundaries, and respecting those boundaries is the key to healthy relationships.
Editors of the Article:
The students of 5th Grade:
Sena, Rumeysa, Zeynep, Omer, Muhammed, Ediz.
Gorele Imam Hatip Secondary School, Giresun
Turkey
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